Boston mom Emily Sutliff always knew her parents, Betsy and Paul, would be a big part of her daughter Rory’s life. Since Rory’s arrival two and a half years ago, Betsy and Paul have lovingly cared for her several times a week — a bond Sutliff couldn’t wait for her daughter to experience.
But last month, the devoted grandparents decided to treat themselves to a well-deserved adventure in Italy, making it the longest stretch Rory had ever gone without seeing them. According to People, it was a reunion for the ages.
After four weeks apart, the moment had finally arrived: Sutliff took Rory to see Betsy and Paul. She recorded her daughter’s pure joy as she sprinted toward her grandparents, arms wide open, and shared it on TikTok.
@emkate32 The trio is reunited! #grandfathersoftiktok #grandfather #grandparents #grandfatherlove #grandparentsoftiktok #grandma #granddaughter ♬ BIRDS OF A FEATHER – Billie Eilish
Since posting, the heartwarming clip has attracted over 1.6 million views, with viewers commenting on the unbreakable bond between grandparents and grandchild.
- “This is exactly how grandparents are meant to be! You can see how much they mean to each other.” – @grandmafan123
- “This little girl is so blessed to have this kind of love in her life.” – @heartofgoldmomma
- “I lost my grandma recently, and this just brought back so many happy memories. What a beautiful bond.” – @nostalgic_dreamer
“A connection I underestimated”: The power of a grandparent bond
It’s easy to see why this moment has struck a chord with viewers around the world. As Emily shared, “She is incredibly close to them, and it’s been wonderful to witness. I was so excited when I found out I was pregnant and having a child, and there’s so much joy that comes with that. But I think I may have underestimated how special it is to see the relationship she has with them.”
While Sutliff’s story highlights the special bond grandparents can have with their grandchildren, we know that not every family has grandparents who are nearby or actively involved. For families with different dynamics, other trusted adults — such as aunts, uncles, family friends, or community mentors — can bring children many of the same emotional benefits.
The benefits of multigenerational connections
The connection between grandparents and grandchildren isn’t just heartwarming; it has lasting benefits for a child’s development. Research shows that children with close relationships with their grandparents or other caregivers experience various emotional and social benefits that help them thrive. Here’s how these connections enrich a child’s life:
- Boosting emotional well-being
Children who have close bonds with their grandparents or older role models are more likely to experience positive emotional health. Studies have shown that these relationships can provide a buffer against stress and even reduce the likelihood of depression, especially as children grow older.For instance, a study from the University of Oxford found that children with involved grandparents had fewer emotional and behavioral problems. Grandparents provide a sense of security and continuity that can be comforting during life’s ups and downs.
- Encouraging empathy and social skills
Interacting with grandparents helps children learn essential social skills, including empathy, patience, and respect. Grandparents often bring different perspectives and stories from their lives, which can broaden a child’s understanding of others.The American Grandparents Association highlights that grandchildren who spend time with their grandparents often develop a greater capacity for understanding diverse viewpoints, which strengthens their emotional intelligence.
- Fostering resilience and self-esteem
Trusted adults, like grandparents or other older role models, play a key role in boosting a child’s confidence and resilience. Their unconditional support and encouragement can help children feel valued and capable, which in turn builds a strong sense of self-esteem. A Boston College study on grandparents and adolescent well-being found that close intergenerational relationships were associated with reduced depressive symptoms. - Preserving family traditions and values
Many children gain a deep sense of identity from their grandparents, who often serve as keepers of family history and traditions. This connection helps children feel more rooted, giving them a stronger sense of where they come from and grounding them in shared family values.The University of New Hampshire explains that when grandparents share family stories, they contribute to children’s understanding of their heritage and cultural identity, which can be a source of pride and connection.
In a world that often feels fast-paced and ever-changing, grandparents offer children a unique gift: the ability to experience love, wisdom, and a connection to tradition. The relationship between grandparents and grandchildren supports well-being and growth, enriching both generations in countless ways.
Viral TikTok shows why grandparents are a gift for kids and parents alike
The reunion may have only lasted seconds, but for Rory, her grandparents, and everyone watching, it was a reminder of the timeless love between generations.
Sources:
- Grandparents Contribute to Children’s Well-being. University of Oxford. Grandparents Contribute to Children’s Well-being.
- The Role of Grandparents in the Lives of Youth. Sage Journals. The Role of Grandparents in the Lives of Youth.
- Study Boosts Grandparent-Grandchildren Ties. Boston College. Study Boosts Grandparent-Grandchildren Ties.
- Negotiating Belonging. University of New Hampshire. Negotiating Belonging: Social Class Identity and the Lived Experiences of First-Generation College Students.
